Honestly, I am a lazy woman. A secondary reason is that I didn’t get an internet connection only until recently.
Please don’t think that I don’t like blogging. I love it. This is the reason I am not making the presentation I am supposed to make and writing this post on priority. This proves my love 🙂
This year was full of surprises. On both professional and personal fronts. I never expected Gappa would agree to marry. I also never expected that I will let her do so. But, she is happy which is keeping me sane 🙂
The wedding was such amazing fun. We danced like crazy zombies. Gappa told me that the wedding turned out to be exactly how she wanted it to be. I am glad it did. I was shit nervous about how everything would take place. But I should say my parents and certain other people surprised me pleasantly by their organisational skills. Gappa wore a pretty green and blue net lehanga for the sangeet. And a florescent green and pink lehanga for the wedding and reception. And I must say my sister has the most beautiful eyes and the most elegant smile on planet earth. She was such a perfect bride. Smiling coyly on one hand and enjoying her wedding to the fullest on the other. The sangeet was such a success that I still can’t get over it. We made a slideshow of Gappa’s pictures right from her childhood till the mehandi function. Actually, I didn’t contribute much into the same. It was Rash and Prish who did the entire work. My two baby cousins did everything from preparing the script for anchoring to putting things back in place to running around in high heels. I love these people so so much. A lot of people unfortunately missed attending the wedding as well. Gappa’s best friend, another good friend etc. but I am sure the people who did attend made sure that Gappa doesn’t feel such absence 🙂 I will upload some pictures of the wedding soon.
On the other front, Rash and I have stopped talking. Like not talking at all. I still sometimes can’t believe that. After a point of time you get so used to a person’s presence in your life, that even their absence doesn’t bother you because you never feel it. It is difficult to not be with him. When all I did in the past 4 years is to be with him. I honestly don’t know how he feels about it. I assure myself by assuming that he feels the same. But, I know that I have some of my life’s most beautiful and treasured memories with him. And I am glad that I have the same with him and nobody else. You are still my best friend Rash. You will always be. And I know you are reading this and I hope this brings a smile to your face. I also hope that everything that you remember about me in the times to come always brings a smile to your face. Because a smile on my lips plays as soon as you come to my mind. I have a lot of things to say to you. It deserves a post in itself. Please do read it.
On professional front, yes this comes last in priority because I have no clue as to what I am doing by practicing as a tax lawyer (No, I won’t file your returns. Lawyers don’t do that, please excuse!). But, it is paying the bills and I actually have a decent boss and a very amazing senior associate to learn from. So, as long as this works fine, I think I will stick. I completed one year of pretending to be working on 16th June, 2015. Yes, I need to record that. Deal with it. I hope I can keep on pretending though I do not consider myself to be pretentious at all. *Fingers crossed*.
The only thing that I need to start doing now is travel. Visit places. I really wish to start working on this front too. I am glad to have made a new girlfriend *touchwood*. And I really love her. I hope it stays the same way. I didn’t expect to make such close friends in Delhi. It happened on its own and it is great 🙂 ( No, it doesn’t mean I don’t miss you Rash, you have a place of your own in my heart and it will always be yours. Don’t make that face).
I think this is enough for the first post of the year. I will be back soon 🙂